Something Nice??

Have you ever wanted to do something nice for someone? Have you ever done something nice for someone just to have them tell you thanks, but no thanks? Well that happened to me. I am not particularly close to my in laws. Do not get me wrong I am not at war with them. We just see things differently. I thought for their anniversary my husband and I should do something special for them. (OK we kinda forgot last year, and it was a big one.) I booked them a really nice cabin in the mountains for two nights. It was all set they could take their dog and all. I called and told my MIL she was giddy with excitement. She told me that she had really wanted to go somewhere. Well about two hours later she called to inform me that my FIL did not want to go. His reason? He did not really have one. He did mention that they did not have enough money to eat if they went. OK I get that but, it has a full kitchen you can cook all of your meals. Breakfast was provided. I mean they are going to eat somewhere. When I called them back last night they were OUT eating dinner. What do you think the deal is? Is he afraid that I am going to send him to a place with vibrating beds and, a condom machine in the bathroom? I do not know why he does not want to go, but my feelings are really hurt.